Make a pact to yourself to live happier and feel happier everyday.  The truest way to live happy is to love everything about yourself and appreciate everything you have to offer.  Embrace the way you walk, the way you talk, and the way you smile.  Stop comparing yourself to others, as you are in your own lane with no one else on the road.

If it is a monetary difference that you wish where the same, this will not necessarily bring you happiness that you assume it to bring.  Be certain and confident that there are many more important things that make you special and unique.  For example we are each unique because of our sensibility to those in need, love for our friends and family, our talents, our life callings, and our very own dreams.

When we allow ourselves to exist truly and fully, we sting the world with our vision and challenge it with our own ways of being. (Thomas Moore)

I know that someone looks up to you, whether it be your grandmother, nephew, little cousin, a neighbor, a lover, or even a close friend.  You make others happy by just being yourself, someone relies on your happiness as much as you do.  Take the time out of your day and focus in on what it is that makes you smile and aim to do this every time you feel unhappy.

Know that moments of unhappiness last as voluntarily long as you allow them to exist.  The harder and stronger you love yourself, you project a whirlwind of happiness onto the world, which truly makes the world easier to function amongst the catastrophe around us.

We do not choose to be born. We do not choose our parents. We do not choose our historical epoch, the country of our birth, or the immediate circumstances of our upbringing. We do not, most of us, choose to die; nor do we choose the time and conditions of our death. But within this realm of choicelessness, we do choose how we live.(unknown)

Try to write the chapters of your life to be novels of profound happiness, paintings of great happy memorable artistry.  Let it flow from the deepest depth of your most heartfelt emotions of sincerity and compassion.  Think of your happiest dreams and destinations that make you smile, believe that you can find happiness wherever you seek it to be.  This feeling is something that can’t be replaced, you can make all the money in the world.  Unless you have someone to share the joy of spending it with, your happiness is destined to expired.

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