Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.(Eleanor Roosevelt)

I believe it is extraordinary when one declares love to one’s self.  This is a life long commitment that may sometimes feel impossible in a society where the best is considered the best dressed or the one whom has the most money.  Change this way and know the best is the one whom has great friends and loved ones.  Express the way you love yourself in the direction of others and it will find its way back to you like a boomerang is intended to do.  As honey is to a bumble bee, the love for thyself should be rich in comparison.

In accordance with knowing that love comes from the purest place in one’s heart, it is one’s proclamation of love and the feeling of being loved that makes this reality to be truth.  Don’t restrict your love, I strongly feel that the components that exist in sharing love is the same stuff that formulate reciprocation to be loved.  When you abstain from sharing, you don’t allow others to share the essence of yourself.  I know it is hard to express yourself, when you feel like you don’t wanna get hurt.  That is truly a state of mind that needs to be wiped from your thoughts, it is a self developed mechanism that allows you to live based solely on your bad experiences with love.

“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”(Unknown Author)

Is it true that we are afraid of loving others as equally as ourselves; Because in our minds we feel like neither of the two can ever live up to the challenge?  In my opinion I believe this to be partially true if one believes that love can’t be found, reason being is that one’s state of mind orchestrates their perception and direction in life.  If you wanna love, then you will love, and if you wanna refrain from this feeling, then you must want to live under the constraints of your past.

Truth be told, in my opinion there is absolutely no burden like loving someone, losing someone without having told or expressed to them that you loved them.  I believe this to be something that we all have done to ourselves and others.  Which in turn may cause one to live long lives of despair and unhappiness.  So I say stop sabotaging yourself, embrace the tender and caring heart that you have.  Share it with the world as you walk, talk and smile with pure confidence in knowing that when you feel no one else loves you damn sure will!

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you’ll find one at the end of your arm … As you grow older you will discover that you have two hands. One for helping yourself, the other for helping others.(Audrey Hepburn)

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