The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same. (Carlos Castaneda)

Free yourself and the rest will follow.  Live the life you want for a once, utilize all things as motivation to change what it is that you dislike.  Change your outcome with a little mental reconstruction, transcend your thoughts on a gravity defying level of abnormality.  Everything normal isn’t always good, don’t buy or do things because they are what everyone else does or want.

You are a child of God and he created you just the way you will learn to be, he has one prerequisite while on your journey of finding self-reliance and that is to love yourself.  No one person can love you better than you can, don’t let your life be a filled with denial, when you know that you deserve better.

You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings. (Pearl S. Buck)

Grant yourself the finest thoughts, through personal development based on things that will motivate you to the next level of living a fulfilling life.  Rely upon your inner being to be your strongest and best understood character of free will.  Do right when you feel like doing wrong, I feel there is no need to seek revenge on someone.

It isn’t your duty make someone pay for their wrongdoing, it is their own doing that will bring karma unto themselves in ways that will lead them to understand.  Through it all we must find a way to smile, it isn’t what we go through that allows us to do so, but it is how we deal with it, that allows us to smile.  Learn to be grateful, learn to be understanding, learn to accept, learn to be willing, learn to love others, as this is the way to find happiness.